Day by day, sometimes minute by minute. They aren't all sweet and holy, but if you pay close attention, and try hard to not let it be about you, you get see them discovering themselves, digging through the layers and finding their way out of the chrysalis of babyhood.
It's so different than it was with my own boys. A completely different kind of adventure and I am so privileged and grateful to have been a part of his life, to be Nana.