In real life

  New day, real stuff to do. Yesterday, I entrusted a handful of thread orders to the postal service. Hope that wasn't a fool's errand.  Joe just received a fabric bundle that was mailed six weeks ago!

I've been working on a short story for way too long because I know it's really a bridge to the next book. A juicy chunk of that story revealed itself last night. 

I burrowed around in the cloth closet and pulled this UFO out for consideration. 

Nothing is more satisfying than turned-edge applique with two layers of vintage, hand-dyed damask. In the beginning, I stabbed myself a couple of times because there was little to no resistance to the needle. 

This, and a handful of others, is destined to become part of the first bedware I have made in years. 

That furred gladiator in repose freaked us out last night. Bailey met Colin in the driveway, jumped into his lap before he could get out of the car, and followed him inside to reveal that he was covered in gore. Blood all over his white bib, face, and forelegs. After a hasty and ill-received examination--he growled and hissed and lashed his tail--I could find no obvious injuries. This morning, he had cleaned himself thoroughly and it was eatzees as usual followed by a quick dash for the door. We will watch and wait.

Jumping Jack Flash got another bath (I made the mistake of leaving him parked underneath the power line) and later, I'll clean the inside - again. There will be road trips. 
 
A good chunk of Prophets Tango was written while I was driving to and from caring for Charlie when he was very little. Notes jotted down at stoplights. Whole conversations between characters while I kept my hands on the wheel and dictated the gist of those dialogues into my phone. It's a time machine. 

And the other day, Charlie told me I was a time traveler. He often asks me about how it was when I was his age. 

Here, the well-rehearsed and researched preparations for transforming Charlie into Fry from Futurama. 

And a damn fine job.

 Missy felt teary over some of these pictures. She could see his teen years coming. Me too.

~done~

 

                                                  I voted today. I'm done.

A special thanks to Dee Mallon for this excellent post on coping, especially the link to James Carville's article on why Kamala Harris will win.   Take heart.

                                  

Adventures awry

 The day after I got back from New York, there was an email invitation to the Kamala Harris rally in Atlanta. Harris, Obama, Springsteen? Are you kidding me? I spent a half hour checking to see it was a scam. I pounced and rsvp'd. 

After several email exchanges, I almost felt the FBI rifling through my file. Then I got the exact address and the logistics for attending. It was on! Lots of rules including NO bags of any kind. No food or water. Here's me assuming we'd be provided for. A whole separate location for ADA pickup and entry. My walking stick was approved. It was a go! 

I left my car at a MARTA station and joined a long queue waiting for the buses to take us to the venue. The excitement, the solidarity was joyfully palpable. I was about to start meeting the angels.

Angel number One, so appropriately named Angela, my seatmate. Both of us have seen the campaigns of life. Both of us on sticks, our back, and hips trying their best to behave and let us have this day.

The weather was perfect. Small mercy. The bus let us off at the ADA entrance. We stood in another line that moved slower and slower. A staffer made her way down the line to warn us to take everything out of our pockets. It was slowing down security. With no bags, what else was there?  I had my car keys and my ID stashed in my bra. 

Samuel Jackson's limo rolled up and he poked his head out to say hey. 

Then things went sideways. Another staffer made her way back along the line to advise that the west side of the venue was full and the entrance would be closing. Hundreds of people were still in line. Crutches, canes, wheelchairs and caretakers. It looked like a pilgrimage to Lourdes. The only option was to walk back down to the road and hike about a half-mile back to the main gate where we, the halt, lame, and deranged, would be granted special access ahead of the hoi polloi. 

I was already low on gas, but Angela took my arm and said, "We got this." The woman literally saved my life, counting off a dozen steps at a time and then stopping for a breather. If it hadn't been for Angela, I would have lay down in the weeds and watched as the parade went by without me. 

True to the word passed, a young man met us at the gate and shepherded us to the last security checkpoint, airport style, wands and all. Secret service was serious. At this point, I was having trouble getting enough air and my legs were shaking. Another slow line and my vision started darkening around the edges. We were at the last set of stairs. Angela grabbed a cop, who called for EMS and I told her I was in the right hands and to go on without me. She was reluctant, but she pressed on.

I was quickly treated to Fulton County's finest care. EMTs did their thing. Gave me a big blue Gatorade to finish. I was dehydrated. My bad.  I left the house on only a cup of coffee and half a sandwich worried about if and when I'd have access to a bathroom. An EMT said he heard that all the time. Not an unreasonable concern.

I spent the next hour in a Cooling Station, a converted command vehicle. I could hear everything, but I wasn't really taking it in.

Then the second angel, the same young male staffer who got us through security came back to me and told me that the buses would be coming soon. 

I sat outside the cooler and watched the human parade oddly detached from the whole point of being there. There were hundreds of people just milling around outside. Apparently fire marshall put a cap on how many people could actually be admitted to the stadium which holds fifteen thousand. I was surprised to find that most of the people outside hadn't bothered to register. 

Young angel returned, took me by the arm, and whispered, "Let's get you a ride." He walked me down to the road where the buses were lumbering like elephants in a circus parade, pounded on the door of the first one sporting a Kensington Station sign, and asked the driver to let me board there instead of a half-mile down the road.  Goodbye, young angel. Thank you.

I climbed aboard and settled in for the long slow ride back to the station. Traffic was nearly frozen, blue lights strobing everywhere just to keep order. Another angel, our bus driver, cruised a full-sized school bus through a crowded parking lot dropping us off at our cars, one by one. 

A good time was had by all and I am a bit more cognizant of my limitations. 

Good to be home from home

This trip to NY was all about family. My brother should open a bed and breakfast—the kind where you feed yourself or go out and sleep as late as you want. I have to buy him a Mr.Coffee to tuck in the pantry for my next visit, but the little delis in the area are superb. 

The Bitches took their road trip to eat seafood seaside. Georges of Galilee did not disappoint. The weather was perfect, the beach was still crowded with people. Salt air and sunshine. 


We took in a frosty soccer game to watch my nephew play.

My turn to wander

 

Away awhile