Thursday, January 28, 2021

not 'playing' school

 

There was an unscripted homeschool day this week. It was supposed to be a distance learning day with the laptop connected to the teacher and his classmates, but something went wrong with the connection and we were on our own.

Over the course of the day, I believe he got more actual instruction than a whole week of laptop learning with its interminable delays, glitching, and the need to accommodate, one by one, a dozen or more other first graders.

A discussion about Harriet Tubman's likeness proposed for twenty-dollar bills lead to frank discussions about Andrew Jackson, the First People (of this entire continent) and closer to home, the Trail of Tears and yes, old people and babies died. Tears of grief.  Tough, but necessary lessons for a six-year-old. All of the truths. 

The anole above shocked both of us skittering around the kitchen floor. Once I captured it, we got a good close look, then let it outside where it belonged just as the sun warmed the back patio. Then some time looking them up on the web getting some details. Reptiles vs. Amphibians. Habitat and habits. The fun science stuff. 

There was reading, writing, math practice. Numbers of things as quantities and values are becoming clear beyond the (forced, in my opinion) mechanics of arithmetic. 
There were no frustrations, tears, or temper tantrums. All in all a good day. With a little bit of prep, I could do this for him all day, every day and we'd both be better off.


Detailed drawings came with a running monologue. I should have recorded them. 

5 comments:

Nancy said...

Deb~ What a fine day you two had!
J. is part Choctaw, his great grandpa was born on the Trail of Tears. Brutal history.

Liz A said...

the last image ... his hair between his fingers, such intense concentration making his vision real

grace Forrest~Maestas said...

i feel that concentration too...
it's hard to know which choices are best.

so good to read that you felt the day to be so good. Again,
the two of you are Lucky to have eachother

Hazel said...

What a good teacher you are, lucky Charlie. Our school glitched this week, too. Resulting in no school at all on Friday. Moon went out geo-caching with a friend, a happy day of fresh air, puzzle solving and talking to a real person (with distance & masks!).

Deb Lacativa said...

Whenever we have a whole day together, I have to resist the urge to transmit information the whole time. Give over to just being. Listening goes a long way in that direction because he has a lot to say. He's fulla questions. I'm fulla answers.